You have stated elsewhere that people are drawn together by the law of affinity. If this is so then teaching stating that they can also be drawn into a relationship because of former hate or ill treatment must be wrong.

The law of affinity decrees that like be drawn to like and all gravitate towards a state of compatibility. However, the kharmic law cannot be overridden by the law of affinity when it comes to reincarnation. Consequently they work together. People are therefore drawn into relationships because of past hatreds and wrongful actions; debts have to be paid and injustices righted. Only thus can the balances be adjusted.